Two nuns came to visit us and gave us a huge bag full of clothes. There were little boy' clothes and also little girls' clothes. My Mum had two little boys, but she was too polite to say anything. The next day we were walking down the street and an old lady stopped to say to Mum, "What a pretty little daughter you have!" Mum looked down at my brother Khoa and smiled. He was wearing a girl's dress!