Letting go is really hard, especially when you have to let go of something you really want, whether it's a great opportunity, someone you really liked or loved or even any expectations you had about something. I don't think anyone knows how to completely let go or not fall back from time to time if they do, but there are definitely ways to make it easier for you to let go when you relentlessly don’t want to let go What is destined will reach you, even if it be underneath two mountains. What is not destined, will not reach you, even if it be between your two lips Proverb Anything that feels forced or harder than it should be or causes you pain and distress is not meant for you. Having this mentality or faith will help you overcome the reluctance that comes with making a decision of whether or not you should let go. Things that are meant for you have a way of flowing smoothly into your life. The more you fight for something that is not meant for you, the more it will fight you. You may get what you want in the end, but it may not last and you may not feel at ease with it. The beauty of things that are meant for you is that they just happen; against all odds. We are just programmed to complicate life sometimes. The only thing more unthinkable than leaving was staying the only thing more impossible than staying was leaving. Elizabeth Gilbert Letting go is really painful when you feel stuck and it can sometimes seem impossible to do, but the truth is if you reach this point, it means that you’ve been trying so hard to make this thing work in your favor, or reach your goal, and it sometimes feel like we've tried so hard or come a long way that if we let go now, it will feel like a waste of time given the time and effort we invested in it. But nothing is ever a waste of time, even if it feels like it is, we are here to make mistakes and learn lessons to grow as individuals, if we keep holding on to toxic situations or toxic people because we've already done too much or it’s too late to change things, we are only setting ourselves up for a miserable life.